Friday, October 31, 2008

MAK N ABAH

Sekarang......
Dahulu.....

Looking at my parent's wedding picture buat i teringat about a book i read about a month ago..titled "aku terima nikahnya"...it tells of cara cinta orang dulu dulu as compared to now..bercinta selepas kahwin yang membawa bahagia ke anak cucu.....when asked whether they went dating before marriage...my mom kata "mana ada"..they learn about each other after marriage....dislikes...likes....attitude....bertolak ansur and adapt....marriage is for life and istillah cerai takde dalam kamus.....

....page 145 of "my last lecture states the best advice on relationship and i rasa sama dengan buku "aku terima nikahnye" tu....."when it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, its really simple...just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do".....orang dulu dulu mana ada romantik romantik....lovey dovey and yet their marriage last sampai ke anak cucu.....i tak pernah dengar abah i cakap i luve u to my mom...lap u pun tak pernah he he he tapi by his conduct i know that he loves her.....gaduh hari hari tapi cannot be apart from each other....i pray that i too would find that person who loves me, cares for me and would guide me spiritually...Amin....Adk sayang mak and abah....

8 comments:

Asmadiana Alias said...

akak,
betol betol betol..orang dulu2 tak kenal pon kan? 2 strangers married and last forever..how sweet it is kan? i also believe in bercinta selepas kahwin..tapi, zaman sekarang ni, ada lagi ke orang percaya macam tu? my mom said the same thing kalau tanya time dorang bercinta dulu macam mana...its amazing.....Allah works in mysterious way(Kak Dilla once said to me...)

xoxo

caramel said...

Nana...akak pun rasa macam tu....like for me i dah penat dah nak berdating-dating and to go thru the whole process again and again and again...its true that ALLAH works in mysterious ways...Nana cuba baca cerita "aku terima nikahnya"...best sesanga...next week ada di Melaka?

Asmadiana Alias said...

akak..of course ada kat melaka kak..where else for me to go? u coming? oh please let me know, we can meet up and talks...huhu..are u coming? eh, come la kak...yeyey! yippiediddie..oh, so excited nih! ahah..

where can i get the 'aku terima nikahnya'?

xoxo

Adillah A Nordin said...

Love the picture of your mom & dad. I love old pictures..
My mom & dad sama je. Mak kena kahwin paksa. But they got to know each other after marriage & now: 8 anak, 23 cucu & 46 years of marriage!!

PS: Just came back from Jakarta. Penat...

Aishah Rahman said...

nenek and babah looks soooo young!! babah doesn't look much different from now but nenek is!! hehehe.. u look d most like nenek laa auntie =D

caramel said...

Dilla....rest k...jope the Jakarta trip was a good trip for u and staff........cinta orang dulu dulu ni is somewhat special....tapi apapun keserasian pun penting and it all depends on what we want in a marriage.....mindset..marriage is hardwork....

caramel said...

nana......this weekend kita balik Melaka..insyaallah boleh lah kita jumpa k....u can get the book dekat MPH...kat Popular pun ada...authornye ialah..Ustaz Hasrizal Abdul Jalil..

caramel said...

Pumpkin....sweet kan gambar abah n nenek....ada gambar both arwah ibu Nor and Busu on the left and right.....anti ingat anti suzi looks more like her than me......